Cooking Mama 3

I always thought her husband was not the greatest looking man on earth. However, he treats me well and I love it. We were really affectionate in the early years of our relationship until 2007. Its been 11 years. We just had our first son, hes 4 months now.

In addition to searching for our son last year ... my libido is null and void. I''m on the pill, not sure this has nothing to do w / IT. But I also have a small fear that I am pregnant and on top of that I am breastfeeding and if I get pregnant again, I have no idea.

And though I love my little boy, I DO NOT WANT to get pregnant for at least 3-4 years. I expressed this husband. He understands. I am the primary custodian of our son, husband contributes only when necessary. I am the only nursing at night and stay when the baby does not sleep. I also find time to cook, ready baby stuff, work P / T job, washing dishes and keeping the house clean. I'm exhausted at night. Sex is the last thing on my mind.

Hes very affectionate, more than I am. He always wants to kiss and rub against each other, and made sexual comments. I just ignore it. I feel bad, though. I know hes frustrated. But I do not know what to do.
He rubs on me, hugs, and I literally have an attitude and pray for him to stop! I know, its sad.

Sometimes I'll hold the baby while the baby sleeps if her husband will not mess me w /. I do not love, but affection is not there. My dad was not really loving w / me, and I said husband. He said his mother in his arms and kissed her every day before leaving for school. My mom was not really loving w / me either. I am the only child so naturally, I spent much time by myself, which means I had lots of space .... sometimes I feel smothered w / hubby love.

For example: before going to sleep 30 minutes ago, he came in the computer room, as every 5 minutes to kiss me .. UGH .. urks than me .. .. Every 5 minutes??? Come on now, I can breathe! When we were dating, he leaned toward me and kiss me EVERY RED LIGHT! .. seriously ...

It even reached the point where his body is so unattractive to me, and when I look back on previous years, his body has never bothered me.
Hes so skinny, hes one of those people metabolism w / very high. I gained about 25 pounds since we met, and it seems that the more weight I gained, the lean, it seemed.

It does not take care of him as before. He used to take care of his teeth, cut his hair faithfully, dressed in Nice, felt good. Now he takes his face to where they leave the imperfections BIG ugly and his breathing is still funky, and all UAS in my face!

I try to tell him he should not mess his face but he does anyway and I try to make dental appts, he goes, but last week he called and canceled.

Do you think if I'm loving it w /, it will begin to care more about himself? Basically, I have to force myself to try to be loving it w /. Its sad. I know that saying, "if it does not get you, he'll be elsewhere." I always worry about it.

Hey there

I have just given birth to a baby girl and it's my second ... but anyway, I want you to know that I really understand what you feel because I felt that way with my first daughter after I gave birth to her and my husband was very affectionate towards me and I do not want anything to do with him ... I also had to wake up at night to breastfeed and get up in the morning to work, cleaning and cooking, etc. I'm sure you get the pic ...

but all I can say is, do not keep pushing away cz then he will suffer and seek comfort elsewhere ... also, this thing that you live is normal ...